What would make you cheat or tempt you to (if anything could)?
Stretch your minds to that absolute situation that you think would be the temptation to you, be it imaginary or within the realm of possibility.
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I must be weird, unusual, abnormal or very naive, or all of the above because honestly I cant think of any situation that could make me cheat.
Interesting Q. I can and will say I would never cheat, but I have learnt that circumstances presented in a very tempting and enticing fashion can cause the holiest of us to fail... I can only hope I will be strong enough to stick to my beliefs and decisions.
Don't think any realistic situation can lead me to cause I have self control. Even an imaginary situation would only tempt but not lead to cause the guilt would stop me from doing it.
I must be weird, unusual, abnormal or very naive, or all of the above because honestly I cant think of any situation that could make me cheat.
Wait... that's the same thing D said!
The 4 of you sound like you belong in a monastery. Are you always so righteous?
If my girl cheated on me I'd cheat on her. Alls fair in love and war. she kep it tight I keep it tight.
Hey nice blog. waazz di meanin of bashment?
You sound like you lookin an excuse to cheat. Look at all the half naked images you have. Nice lookin women but wouldn't you be setting yourself up for disaster by having all these other images in your mind? I think it puts you closer to cheating by setting you up for a possible opportunity.
I would like to think I would never cheat based on the fact that I would not want it happen to me.
But if my girl cheated on me, that would be good grounds to return the favor... but isn't that good grounds just to drop her ass?
All in all I would lke to think not, never, no way ... but you never know ... c'mon halle make me an offer i can't refuse !
Well I'm not married and at the rate my man is movin I ain't gonna be anytime soon. So if Johnny Depp made me an offer..... any offer, I'd be interested. Serves him right for dragging his feet.
Cheat? What does that word mean? All I will say is that I have had to endure a few very tempting situations, thankfully with no compromise. Before I had a steady girlfriend and during the beginning of the relationship I would scream "NEVER!", I still scream but a little bit softer. I think that the thought of hurting my gf, or dissappointing ppl who i kno would not be pleased (like God) is enuff to keep me from ever cheating. But I will rely on God's strength to keep from cheating, not my own.
Much agree with Alex. And by the way I don't support the infantile notion that if your g/f cheats on you you should 'return the favor'. It's better to just leave her and let that be that. If you have to even up the score to feel satisfied, maybe the two of you should never have been together in the 1st place.
righteous indeed.
'I would never cheat.'
Sure. right now with all the love going on and everything so great u would never cheat. And what's ur def'n of cheating. A thought. A conversation u know is a little 'off' (even if u can laugh it away). A touch. A look. Because technically anything u wouldn't do if your partner was around and demanding your attention and time - is cheating.
Are u sure you've never and will never cheat?
It's only cheating if you sleep with them or fall in love with them.
Bullsh*t cheating is on all levels. All men are dogs. Even the good ones cheat in their hearts though they may not betray you physically. Then they look for the simplest assinine reasons to justify themselves. I'm tired of this crap happening to me!!!
Whoah!! Lot's of activity tonight!
'All men are dogs'. I'm not going there again.
We cheat in our hearts? How the hell do we do that if we haven't fallen in love with someone else?
Is my finding Beyonce attractive tantamount to cheating? Better yet does my girl (I hope its a girl) who would give Johnny Depp some good lovin, fall in the category of 1. potential cheater, 2. current cheater, 3. attempted cheater.....
Where are the lines really? Are they drawn by the wronger or wrongee? Or is there a 'standard' (or lack thereof)?
anonymous6, sorry, but that's just crap to me. If you fall in love with someone else, chances are you've cheated well in advance of that moment.
Thinkbass, not sure I agree with you. Here's a scenario I just formulated: let's say I have a g/f. I dont sit in other girl's laps when she's around, but I do when she isn't around. Maybe I do that cuz I know she won't like it. But does that mean I've cheated? Betrayed her wishes, maybe, but have I cheated? I don't think so.
It's all about perspective. Some view cheating as an emotional betrayal, while others a physical! Maybe one should just know their own interpretation and stick to it...agree to disagree.
Personally, cheating is physical. Finding someone else attractive while with someone else is by no means cheating, but is simply "human appreciation" of the fine things in life. Jealousy may weasle it's way in there somewhere (where a partner is concerned), but it's a part of life. One cannot help admiring the eye-catcher..what you do after is what is imporatant...
agree whole hartedly Le-Anne, cause if you look at it ANONYMOUS 7's or Thinkbass's way then we are all cheaters and then it would make noo sense for anyone to be in a relationship.
I must interject here that the "all men are dogs" becuase we notice when some is attractive to us is very intresting seeing that women are such saints and the minute the enter a relationship the immidiately go blind to all the other Attractive guys around them.
OH and BTW
and when since is "falling in love" cheating? That I cant subscribe to, no matter what you do the grass will always look good somewhere else, it is what you do about it that counts.
i don't subscribe to the: 'anything that you do when the partner is not around is cheating' philosophy. But I did get the rxn I wanted - the haze surrounding the definition of cheating. You'd be surprised at what ppl tink is cheating. The best way is to clear with your partner what they think it is and cross it with what you think it is.
See if u can live with the result - and if you can't then don't settle.
In all topics to do with relationships on my blog I urge ppl to be open in communicating with their significant other because that's the key.
If I was neglected and a good catch came along before I was out of the 1st situation, I'd probably end up cheating to land on my feet.
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