Ok, having run off my mouth, I thought about it and realised that despite being a freak in many departments and quite accommodating in a number of things, I too have a breaking point. I too will draw the line somewhere. But where is that point?
Most times we think of the really big things that are not always the ones that afront us if we are unfortunate enough to be put to the test. Example being "if you love me you'll have sex with a man or allow me to have sex with another man"! Shoot that's simple. Ooman you mad to r**s!!!
Yet such an ultimatum may have others contemplating because they don't think the way I do. Also when we are so in love, you'd be surprised how many little things we are willing to attempt despite feeling uncomfortable about them. They usually lie just outside of where we draw the line or they are in the realm of things we hadn't thought of and so have no opinion of as yet.
So where do I draw the line? Hmmmmm!
1. Including other ppl. Nope not gonna happen. That remains in the realm of the imagination. Feel free to imagine it. Call their name if you want (just not always). If ya smart call mine in there too. Call it first, middle, and then end. I won't complain.
2. S&M. I'm with it to some degree. Just don't think that I'm gonna take an ass whooping to make you feel good. Neither am I gonna give ya one cause that won't make me feel good.
3. I can work with some fetishism. Water, food, (others may be there but can't think of them right now). Anything unhygienic is out of the question.
4. Alcohol in small amounts YES. Anything else NO!!!!
5. Dress up? Why not!!!
6. Golden showers? ...............As long as you don't drink. Not for the faint of heart ;)
7. Nothing faecal!!! Incl. Dirty Sanchez!!
8. No gangbangs. Like hell I'm sharing Kelly .... knowingly.... (you hear dat hill tonne boy)!
9. Toys? It depends!
10. In strange (outdoor) places. Not much of an exhibitionist, but up for unusual places.
Periphery
Feel free to comment to let me know where you draw the line or to just bring things to my attention that were left off my list (not exhaustive). Where possible let's avoid graphic details. Euphemize where possible. I know most ppl are uncomfortable discussing these things feeling they should be left for private discussion. In that case, feel free to comment as anonymous# (#= whole numbers, if someone has used 6 then you use 7). Thanx!
7 comments:
You're a freak! Why would you reveal this about yourself on the web for all to read?
You'd be surprised how many simple discussions like this can prepare us for the things we may face later on in life. It may/may not be useful to everyone, but someone will appreciate it.
There is nothing dirty or obscene about the discussion. Imagine thinking that you want a jacuzzi to add spice to your married lovelife when it happens. The time comes and your partner isn't interested at all. No biggie! Till you realise that many such delights are not in the cards for both of you, and you thought they were fairly innocuous. "Nothing perverted about a jacuzzi" you thought. Possible source of frustration over time? Definately!
Another person may have been dreaming of the jacuzzi lovin for years and now you want to deny them! Aw hell NO!!!
Don't feel forced to engage in the discussion before its time, but get comfy having open frank dialogue so at the appointed time there is less unpleasantness. Don't assume you'll automatically know what to say or how to ask. Presentation is make/break. I may be indifferent but willing if you talk to me nice and patient like. Try force me and it'll not happen.
Makes me want to satrt talking and talking but it's late - well really I suppose it's cause I'd prefer to talk.
Golden showers? Really BB!
Let's see:
1. No anal sex
2. No 'old man sex' (you can ask me in person)
3. No sharing or swapping
4. Yes to food: strawberries, chocolate syrup etc.
5. No to animals
6. Yes to role playing
7. Definately to unusual places
8. Yep to watcing (voyeur)
I'm sure I've missed a few.
11. Kama Sutra-ing I'm up for that.
12. Massages
13. Could work with a whip and handcuffs
very nice! all of the first seven of thinkbass definitely applies along with the kama sutra. massages is a given. yes to certain toys. unusual places yes, but not too too open - beach, dark park... every single room in the house haffi christen!
S&M is great. Beat me baby!!!
What's wrong with others watching?
Videotaping
webcam
rolling in money
rolling in honey
rolling in oil, oil wrestling
in a pool
at the beach
Ohhh need to free my other hand!!!
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